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About Through Faith Therapy

He provides the refuge — we create the space

Grace Gessel, LCSW is a licensed clinical social worker and trauma specialist of fourteen years, offering faith-centered online counseling to adult Christian women across Texas.

Hey sister. Let’s pause and take a breath. You made it here — that is not nothing.

You feel disconnected: from yourself, from others, from God. On the outside you look like you have it together. You’re responsible and successful. Other people rely on you.

But inside you’re depleted, constantly managing the imperfections you’d rather nobody saw — and the lies you’ve come to believe about yourself.

Let’s check in

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Fill them in. Nothing is saved, nothing is sent — these never leave your browser. Just notice what comes up.

a thing you long for

a memory, a person

a feeling, in your words

a verse, a promise what is true for you right now

Does any of this fit? Then you are in the right place.

You are the “good girl,” the “good wife,” the “good mom,” the “good Christian” — pushing down everything about yourself you dislike, running from yourself. And self is beginning to catch up.

Reaching out for help feels hard. The part of you that thinks you shouldn’t even have these problems is in open conflict with the part that desperately wants to heal. You worry that if people really knew, they’d see you differently.

It’s lonely in there. Few people know the real you.

Let’s talk, sister. You are not the only one who has ever felt this way. There is so much hope for you.

A holistic place to bring your whole self — faith included

You don’t have to carry this alone, and the Lord doesn’t want you to. I’m a Christian therapist integrating faith and evidence-based therapy. I serve high-achieving women who have survived trauma in childhood and adulthood — including narcissistic caregivers, attachment trauma, emotional abandonment, sexual abuse and assault, racial trauma, and intergenerational trauma.

Over the past decade I’ve done significant work supporting women who have survived religious or spiritual trauma and abuse. It is an area of specialty I care about deeply.

There is nothing you’ve survived that will have me running.

The peace and clarity you’re looking for is possible. I offer a compassionate, shame-free space to explore, heal, and evolve with grace — whether you’re carrying past trauma, stuck in anxiety or depression, or wrestling with questions about God in the middle of pain.

What you can expect in therapy

In our first session I’ll get a sense of why you’re coming in. You can share as much or as little of your history as you’re comfortable with, and we’ll talk about whether — and in what ways — you’d like to integrate faith into our work.

Sessions are collaborative, paced to your needs, and grounded in both evidence-based practice and faith-centered care, if you choose it. All parts of you are welcome.

Trauma healing can be heavy. I also believe it can be joy-filled and even playful — and I’ll show you how.

Grace Gessel, LCSW, in her office.

Meet your therapist

Grace Gessel, LCSW

“There is nothing you’ve gone through that I can’t hold space for — nothing you’ve survived that will have me running.”

I’m a wife, a mom of two girls, and a psychiatrist’s kid whose childhood was interesting — and not without its own significant trauma. I danced semi-professionally before graduate school, and I’ve never stopped loving the intersection of scripture and science.

For thirteen years I’ve supported women climbing out of the abyss of trauma and living with what it leaves behind. I’ve watched God re-form women, and I’ve watched them walk out of my office, truly, as new creations.

  • MSW, Fordham University · BA Psychology, Old Dominion University
  • Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Texas #63382
  • EMDR Level 1, faith-integrative and attachment-focused
  • IFS Levels 1 & 2, with Christian adaptations

My own path here

I’m a psychiatrist’s kid, so my childhood was interesting — and not without significant trauma of its own. I loved escaping into books. I read my father’s DSM at eight years old when I was bored; I’m entirely serious.

But it was the first time I saw my father cry, after one of his child patients took his own life, that I had my first existential crisis. I was the same age as that child.

I decided at nine that I’d become a therapist — after retiring from ballet.

It looked wildly different from what I imagined, but I did dance semi-professionally for several years before graduate school, and I’ve integrated somatics and movement into my work ever since.

I spent more than two decades exploring Buddhism and yoga before coming to Christ. That journey shapes how I sit with women whose faith is changing shape — I know that ground.

As a follower of Christ I believe God is the ultimate authority on mental health, and that modern neuroscience keeps catching up to what scripture already told us.

“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and saves the crushed in spirit.”

Psalm 34:18

How it works

Three steps, and none of them are a commitment

A fifteen-minute call

Free, by phone. You tell me a little about what’s going on; I tell you how I work. If I’m not the right fit, I’ll say so and help you find someone who is.

A first session

Share as much or as little of your history as you want to. We’ll also talk about whether — and how — you’d like faith woven into the work. That conversation stays open.

The work itself

Collaborative, paced to you, over secure video. Trauma healing can be heavy — it can also be joy-filled and even playful. I’ll show you how.

Questions

Before you reach out

If yours isn’t here, ask it on the free call — that’s exactly what it’s for.

Do you offer online therapy in Texas?

Yes. Through Faith Therapy is telehealth only, for adult women located anywhere in Texas. You’ll need to be physically in Texas at the time of session.

Who do you work with?

Adult Christian women navigating trauma, anxiety, depression, and seasons of spiritual crisis or doubt — including religious and spiritual trauma, attachment trauma, narcissistic caregivers, emotional neglect, abuse, racial trauma, and generational trauma.

Do I have to be a Christian to work with you?

You are welcome here either way. Most of my clients identify as Christians and want faith-centered care. This is a holistic practice that treats spirituality as integral to health — but if you don’t identify as a Christian, I’ll meet you exactly where you are.

How is faith included in sessions?

That is entirely up to you. In our first session I’ll invite you to share what your walk with the Lord has been like, and we’ll discuss how your faith might support the therapeutic work. It stays an open conversation, and it can change as you do.

What can I expect in the first session?

We’ll talk about what brings you in, what you’ve already tried, and what you’re hoping for. We’ll also cover safety, coping supports, and a plan that feels realistic rather than overwhelming.

What are your rates, and do you take insurance?

Because therapy here is personalised, current rates and availability are best discussed on the free consultation call. You are entitled to a Good Faith Estimate of expected costs before beginning — I’ll provide one in writing.

How do I get started?

Use the contact page to request a free 15-minute phone consultation. We’ll talk through what you need, answer your questions, and outline next steps.

The next step

One phone call. No pressure.

Fifteen minutes to ask your questions, say a little about what you’re carrying, and find out whether we’re a good fit. Nothing is decided on that call but whether to have another one.